Providing children with daily opportunities to make to choices is an important part of their development and fosters a lifelong skill. Below are some benefits for allowing children to make some of their own choices!

A feeling of control: The feeling of being in control of one’s life is part of human nature. Giving children the feeling that they are in control fosters a sense of independence, teaching them to think for themselves. It can also help to build self-esteem and sends a message of mutual respect from the parent. Young children can be offered two choices. This way you are keeping the choices minimal to decrease confusion and controlling the scenario while still providing choice. For example, when it is snack time you can say, “Would you prefer apple slices or crackers and cheese for snack?”

Accepting responsibility: When children have been provided with the opportunity to make a choice for themselves they learn that there are consequences to their decisions, good and bad. Furthermore, this will help a child learn to accept responsibility for the choices they make and consequences associated with those choices.

Reduces conflict: Most of a child’s day is directed by adults, therefore providing choice allows a child to gain independence within their day and can reduce frustration that is associated with receiving constant direction.